<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[BATES Counseling Solutions]]></title><description><![CDATA[Guided Healing Through Christ-Based Counseling]]></description><link>https://www.batescounselingsolutions.org/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Tue, 16 Jun 2026 12:15:39 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.batescounselingsolutions.org/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA['Some Times']]></title><description><![CDATA[Romans 12:19 – “Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, ‘Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.’” When someone wrongs us or hurts someone we love, our first instinct is often to seek revenge; that feeling comes on quickly. Anger bubbles up, and our minds start to replay the moment repeatedly. So, what should we do with our anger? How should we address the wrongdoing? What can we do with our hurt? Romans 12:19 gently but firmly reminds us...]]></description><link>https://www.batescounselingsolutions.org/post/some-times</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a2e23ae44c7bef1d031a7fe</guid><pubDate>Sun, 14 Jun 2026 03:46:05 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/ff4c3e_89b9a223faed40d4857ce87ca8ab7253~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>drpdbates</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Therapy for 'Right' Thinking ]]></title><description><![CDATA[Phone call after phone call—with topics like death, depression, anxiety, fear, broken relationships, health crises, financial despair, and family drama, and I could go on and on. As a counselor, I have come to understand that rightly diving into the Word of God is truly therapy for ‘right’ thinking. ‘Right’ thinking transforms our actions, reactions, deeds, and words. This process entails not only reading the Word of God but also understanding and applying it in a manner that influences how...]]></description><link>https://www.batescounselingsolutions.org/post/therapy-for-right-thinking</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a2e234f418318a8f7e57674</guid><pubDate>Sun, 14 Jun 2026 03:43:34 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/ff4c3e_a094794b8f914d7083a634c87f094396~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>drpdbates</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Thank God for His Compassion... ]]></title><description><![CDATA[And Not Pity Ladies, I cannot fully express the joy and excitement that fill my soul every time we gather. Intentional Women of God, a small group of women who meet bi-weekly, has become more than a meeting… it has become a movement of the heart. ‘intentional’ builds relationships. It cultivates friendships. It supports and empowers women by raising awareness of life issues while providing a safe space to be heard. A place where questions can be asked without judgment and where personal...]]></description><link>https://www.batescounselingsolutions.org/post/thank-god-for-his-compassion</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a2e229444c7bef1d031a644</guid><pubDate>Sun, 14 Jun 2026 03:41:32 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/ff4c3e_6718537a88e94f5392e866aee005e204~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>drpdbates</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Falling in Love...With Jesus ]]></title><description><![CDATA[A Reflection on the Greatest Love We Will Ever Know ________________________________________ A Moment That Stirred My Heart This blog was inspired by one of my clients who said something so simple yet so powerful that it moved me to tears: “I want to fall in love with Jesus.” After years in counseling (and we’ll keep the exact number between the Lord and me), I’ve heard many things. But this… this was different. There was something pure and sacred about that desire. To fall in love with the...]]></description><link>https://www.batescounselingsolutions.org/post/falling-in-love-with-jesus</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a2e217944c7bef1d031a48f</guid><pubDate>Sun, 14 Jun 2026 03:38:04 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/ff4c3e_d1aa52ade89f4f329d65ed7f92880593~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>drpdbates</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[I Know I'm Not the Only One...]]></title><description><![CDATA[To see the hatred, the pain, the betrayal, the violence, the delusion, yes, even within the so-called church, among those claiming the name of Christ…  It’s heartbreaking and also revealing. It is becoming clear that some people are not ready for peace, nor do they truly desire it. They are committed to chaos.   In the Bible, Romans 12:18 tells us, “If it is possible, as much as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.”  That phrase, “as much as it depends on you”, is the key.  Every...]]></description><link>https://www.batescounselingsolutions.org/post/i-know-i-m-not-the-only-one</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a2e20ff44c7bef1d031a3cf</guid><pubDate>Sun, 14 Jun 2026 03:33:34 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/ff4c3e_2eb1a02db29c4c82a5624918b6959eaf~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>drpdbates</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Distractions ]]></title><description><![CDATA[In today’s society, especially over the last five to ten years, we have been bombarded with distractions from every direction. Technology, social media, entertainment, personal struggles, responsibilities, world events, relationships, and the constant demands of everyday life compete daily for our attention. Many people feel mentally exhausted, emotionally drained, spiritually disconnected, and overwhelmed without fully understanding why. From a biblical perspective, a distraction is anything...]]></description><link>https://www.batescounselingsolutions.org/post/distractions</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a2e205b00dbe48b1c7870ef</guid><pubDate>Sun, 14 Jun 2026 03:31:31 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/ff4c3e_e4bd49eb4a8b45e69fc68effd9925712~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>drpdbates</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Finding Hope Through Christ-Based Counseling]]></title><description><![CDATA[In a world filled with uncertainty and challenges, many individuals find themselves searching for hope and healing. Christ-based counseling offers a unique approach that integrates faith, including six constituents and strategic prayer, that provides a pathway to emotional and spiritual well-being. This blog post explores the principles of Christ-based counseling, its benefits, and how it can help individuals find hope in their lives. Eye-level view of a serene counseling space with...]]></description><link>https://www.batescounselingsolutions.org/post/finding-hope-through-christ-based-counseling</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a2df5bf00dbe48b1c782ca9</guid><pubDate>Sun, 14 Jun 2026 00:28:47 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/ff4c3e_1ee79296198f494aa1c14132795b7546~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_768,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>drpdbates</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[You Are Seen...]]></title><description><![CDATA[El ROI - Sees You  Young Women, El Roi Sees You…   This blog is geared toward women, especially young women. As true disciples of Jesus Christ, many young women live in a tension that many people do not see. Outwardly, she may look “normal,” working, married or single, paying bills, managing relationships, and trying to build a future while inwardly fighting to remain faithful in a world constantly trying to pull her away from Christ. Being a disciple of Jesus Christ has never been about...]]></description><link>https://www.batescounselingsolutions.org/post/transform-your-life-with-christian-counseling-techniques</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a2df5bd00dbe48b1c782c9e</guid><pubDate>Sun, 14 Jun 2026 00:28:45 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/ff4c3e_828bcce7a3ec4faca7e8756a9fc32c2d~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_768,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>drpdbates</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Healing Family Relationships with Faith-Focused Guidance]]></title><description><![CDATA[Family relationships can be complex and challenging. Misunderstandings, conflicts, and differing values can create rifts that seem insurmountable. However, many individuals find that faith can serve as a powerful tool for healing and reconciliation. In this post, we will explore how faith-focused guidance can help mend family relationships, offering practical steps and insights to foster understanding and connection. Eye-level view of a family gathered in prayer around a dining table...]]></description><link>https://www.batescounselingsolutions.org/post/healing-family-relationships-with-faith-focused-guidance</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a2df5bc418318a8f7e52c5c</guid><pubDate>Sun, 14 Jun 2026 00:28:44 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/ff4c3e_51c25c4f169b4584a1d4ba5b686ee17f~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_768,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>drpdbates</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>